10 Ways You Can Make Divorce Easier on Your Children
Divorce is hard. Really hard for kids. Aspiring to divorce well is the best way to ease the impact on our kids. Here are my top 10 ways to make divorce easier on your children.
Tag Archives: divorce
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How Do You Tell Your Spouse You Want a Separation or Divorce?
It takes tremendous courage to say you want/need a separation or a divorce. Read on where I share strategies to find this courage and how to initiate this conversation with your spouse
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Which Path Am I On?
Whether you are just opening the door to your divorce or have already made your way down the path a bit, these questions will help you assess your approach and provide insight to your choices and the options available to you.
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Why am I Unexpectedly so Sad?
You’re almost there. Your divorce is all but finalized. You’ve made peace with the fact that it will happen; maybe you’re even the one who wanted the divorce in the first place. You’ve handled the process with maturity and grace (to the best of your ability). So why are you suddenly overcome by grief? Perhaps […]
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Just as I Know Her
Do you recognize yourself – are family and friends noticing someone else?
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Quick – Right Now – Are You a Racehorse or a Workhorse?
Think about it, were you once a racehorse and have become a workhorse? The workhorse tends to take over during stressful times, but doesn’t have to.
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Key to a Successful Divorce: Do More Good than Bad
If we can succeed in doing more good than bad, we’re doing great. Bad stuff is unavoidable, but as long as more good than bad is happening, then we’re moving forward.
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Finding the New Normal – While Transitioning from Divorcing to Divorced
While we are going through divorce we discover that our post divorce life begins to take life. We realize this on a gradual basis then the reality hits. Our new normal life begins to unfold. I found it to be a very lonely time. Alone – best describes how I felt while I was making […]
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Are You in the Midst of Divorcing – But Living a Post-Divorce Life?
At times, in the middle of your divorce, you find yourself living in a post-divorce world. Technically, you’re still married. But on a practical, day-to-day basis, you’re already living the life of a divorced person.
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Can My Marriage Be Saved?
To rescue your marriage, it will take two people who are willing to dig deep and stay constructive.
You will both need courage to stay the course. Here are some thought-provoking questions for you and your spouse to consider. The answers will provide insight to commitment and vulnerability required to be successful. -
Trial Separation: Does It Really Work?
Instead of making an impulsive decision about divorce, should you consider a trial separation? What would it do for you – and can it really work?
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Trust & Divorce: Who Can I Trust?
A simple rule is to trust in the divorce professionals (attorney, finance professional, therapist, real estate agent, divorce coach) on your team and NO ONE else. That may seem very black and white, but it is clear, direct, and easy to remember in times of stress. Here are the reasons why this matters.